aromatherapy oilI firmly believe that using aromatherapy oil to massage your partner on a regular basis can keep the spark in a marriage. I often massage my husband’s back and neck with aromatherapy oils just to help him unwind. He claims that in his entire relationship history I am the only woman who has ever done that for him. He really appreciates the fact that I rub his tense muscles with aromatherapy oil before he goes to bed when he feels stressed out. It is something I enjoy doing for my husband because I like him best when he is calm and relaxed. What’s more these simple little non-sexual but sensual gestures make one’s romantic partner feel loved and cared for. That is why I assumed most people were doing the same thing for their partners.  I was rather surprised that I am the only woman to have rubbed my husband’s back with aromatherapy oils despite the fact that he has been married before and had other serious relationships. Perhaps the regular aromatherapy oil massages are part of the reason why my husband is still as much in love with me as he was five years ago when we first met.